Hello to all dear visitors to my child’s world, they say that education at a young age is like engraving on a stone, meaning that what a child learns in his first years may not be erased until the last day of his life, so you cannot ignore anything, no matter how small, and in many cases, your child may act... In an unacceptable way, he is not subject to any correction, and then he continues with his wrong behaviors because you thought they were normal behaviors for any child, but this small behavior may grow with him as days pass, and you may not be able to control it after that.
So learn about some of these small behaviors to cut the error from its roots before it grows:
1. Teach your child that he cannot talk whenever he wants:
Children
love that everyone pays attention to them and that all their demands
are met immediately, and this may often prompt them to interrupt you
while you are talking or busy with something, but if you ignore this
behavior and respond to it, your child will get used to interrupting
everyone and not respecting their conversation.
Make sure your little one stops this behavior, by following the following method:
Whenever
your child interrupts you, tell him that what you say or do is
important and he should wait until you finish. Be careful not to
fulfill his requests if he requests them with this behavior, because he
will think that his behavior is correct and he will continue with it
forever.
2. Teach your child that truth is indivisible:
Who
among us does not like children's exaggerated responses and their fairy
tale stories, but keeping up with them is not in their interest at all.
When children get used to exaggerating and staying away from the
details of the truth, they learn to lie, so it is better not to
encourage them to do so.
To
stop this behavior in your child: If you notice that your child is
lying, confront the matter and advise him to tell the truth. In return,
when he tells the truth, be sure to praise and reward him.
3. Teach your child that not paying attention is an undesirable behavior:
Many
times, children tend to pretend not to pay attention, especially when
their names are called or a request or advice is given to them. This is
undesirable behavior, especially if it persists.
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And until your child stops this behavior: Every time your child does
not respond to your call, go to his room or the place where he is and
speak to him directly so that you do not leave any room for him to
escape. If he claims to be busy watching television, there is no harm in
turning it off until he pays attention to you and you finish. Talk to
him.
4. Teach your child the difference between wit and belittling others:
Even
if your child is still in his early years, this does not give him the
right to make fun of his friends or family members, and if you ignore
this behavior because of his young age, the matter will only develop for
the worse as the years pass.
To
stop this behavior in your child, help him understand how ugly such
behavior is so that he does not repeat it and do not ignore it or let it
go unnoticed.
5. Teach your child the virtue of asking permission:
Of
course, your heart will be happy if you find your child relying on
himself in his first years, but if you let him take everything he sees
in front of him and everything he wants without referring to you, then
over time you will be surprised by him doing this even outside the home.
Therefore,
to avoid this behavior, set general rules regarding the use of all
household items. Your child must also understand the importance of
asking your permission first before using anything, so that his actions
are calculated and under your control.
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