Hello to all dear visitors to my child’s world, many mothers complain that they feel very tired and lose control over their children at times, especially since they do not hear what they say the first time and they rebel. What bothers them most about them is that they provoke each other and sometimes it comes to insulting each other and with the slightest word spoken. Problems.
First of all, you must address the hidden reasons behind this quarrel and fight , then we will provide you with the most important advice that will help you make your children obedient, love each other more, fear each other, and be cooperative with each other, especially how to create order for them in their lives.
We must be aware that there is bound to be hardship and fatigue in raising children, so I advise reading books that talk about raising children and their different needs at every stage of their development. The most important thing that every mother must know in order to succeed, God willing, in raising them is her patience and patience with them, and her insistence without despair in following up on and modifying their undesirable behaviors, and the most important of all is her agreement with their father on one way of raising them, as their role is fundamental, important, and very influential, especially In resolving conflict and quarrels between their children and creating solutions to calm them down and strengthen family ties between them
.The most important tips that help every mother make her children love each other and cooperate with each other:
Try as much as possible to get close to your children, both together and also by sitting with each one of them individually to listen to their problems, their likes and dislikes, and what their needs are, so that you can have their hearts and be their mother and friend.
Share their hobbies with them, and share toys with the younger one, and spend some time every day in conversation with them so that they learn to communicate between themselves, get to know what is inside them, and work to reduce jealousy between them.
Make them feel your love with kind words and hug them to your chest. If they feel your love, care for them, and equality between them, their psyches will stabilize and they will become like dough in your hands in accepting your words and responding to every positive adjustment.
Teach them by example, by showing your respect for those who are older than you and your kindness to the younger ones, and make them look to see you and apply among them, then reward each one of them who does the required behavior or any good behavior.
Try as much as possible to make daily life have an orderly nature. For example, after waking up, everyone starts by making the bed, arranging his appearance, and then eating breakfast. There is time to play, time to study, and time to read.
Fill their free time by helping you with household chores. This will provide them with achievement, education, an increase in their self-confidence, and an education in cooperation. Thus, they learn to bear responsibility, and you have more time to sit with them and devote time to other matters.
Talk to the older one about the younger one. For example, tell your older daughter that she has become mature and intelligent and can tolerate her younger sister’s behavior because she is still a child in need of guidance.
Try to teach them good behavior with a story. For example, tell them a story about the old man’s love for the little one and how this behavior was satisfactory and he received reward from God and the love of people. The method of teaching through story and example is one of the most successful educational methods.
The gift spreads familiarity and love. Teach them to reconcile each other, even with something symbolic. The important thing is that each of them remembers the other and loves to bring happiness to his heart, as beautiful times bring hearts together and remain in the memory.
Finally, always try to make your behavior and actions match what you talk about and command them to follow, and pray to God for guidance and success.